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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby Ottomeister13 » Tue Aug 12, 2014 11:04 am

Yep, but still, suicide is such a sad thing. It's often easy to say get help and stuff.. But we never know the full story with stuff like this. Same goes with Enke a couple of years ago or Bierman some weeks ago.
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby FCB general » Tue Aug 12, 2014 11:31 am

Catastrophe! Why did he do that... :?

Too bad... I grew up on his movies, great man and comedian. Sad end...
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby runaway » Tue Aug 12, 2014 11:37 am

I suffer with up and down moods and it's something I can't control. Even if things are going well and I'm generally happy, when that down cycle comes, one just had to endure it. Suicidal thoughts had crossed my mind especially when I was in my teen years. It's hard for people that suffer mental health issues like me and it's a never ending battle. Key is to manage the stressors and prepare when that down moment comes because there's almost a pattern to it.

I've never taken medication but has been talking with a counselor since I was in college.

Hollywood is just an unstable environment for people with mental health issues and a good number of them suffered and suffer from it. Williams isn't the first and won't be the last. RIP.

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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby Tedesco » Tue Aug 12, 2014 11:39 am

I also had problems as a teen. But video-games helped a lot keeping my mind busy.
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby runaway » Tue Aug 12, 2014 11:46 am

In the teen years it's most probably caused by hormonal imbalance. And post-partum depression for mothers happen because of the hormones.

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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby MUTU » Tue Aug 12, 2014 11:55 am

Tedesco wrote:So... It's decided: I'm going to visit Malta. :D

I'll be in a resort in St.Paul's between 21.09 - 28.09. I expect a full reception in the FCB club with champagne and shrimps and stuff.

Now on more serious questions:
1. What is the best way to go from the airport to St. Paul? I will not rent a car since you people still drive in that barbaric way (English).
2. When can we meet for a few beers?
3. On the 23.09 and 27.09 there are Bayern matches, so I need a place to see. :P

Looking forward to (hopefully) meet the Maltese guys from here.

Hey don't forget my birthday present. My birthday is on 25th September :P haha.

Re watching Bayern probably the best thing to do is go to the Bayern club in Malta. I haven't gone in a while but we can meet there if you're going :)
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby MUTU » Tue Aug 12, 2014 11:56 am

Tedesco wrote:I also had problems as a teen. But video-games helped a lot keeping my mind busy.

And the basement...? :P
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby Tedesco » Tue Aug 12, 2014 12:05 pm

MUTU wrote:Hey don't forget my birthday present. My birthday is on 25th September :P haha.

Re watching Bayern probably the best thing to do is go to the Bayern club in Malta. I haven't gone in a while but we can meet there if you're going :)

So you I mean I get to go to a birthday party for free? :P

MUTU wrote:And the basement...? :P

That habit came after I moved to Europe. :roll:
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby Borusse » Tue Aug 12, 2014 12:14 pm



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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby prasun77 » Tue Aug 12, 2014 4:20 pm

well hey then! i am 21 and dealing with the same thing you guys are talking about...up and down cycles....how did you manage?
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby Ottomeister13 » Tue Aug 12, 2014 6:18 pm

I admit, i had some issues in the past aswell. But suicide never crossed my mind tbh, felt alone a lot in that period, but i managed it to keep myself busy and my mind on other things.
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby runaway » Tue Aug 12, 2014 9:58 pm

prasun77 wrote:well hey then! i am 21 and dealing with the same thing you guys are talking about...up and down cycles....how did you manage?

You have to keep yourself grounded on reality sometimes when the down cycle comes and you really feel that blackness it's easier to let it swallow you. Support from family and friends is my anchor. People might say to you to shake it off, but it's easier said than done and people around you have to understand that. Sticking to your schedule and going through the motions of it in your down cycle helps even if you find yourself unable to get out of bed.

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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby JANKER » Tue Aug 12, 2014 10:31 pm

'No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.' - It's good to keep in mind this quote and live by it.
No one can help you, but yourself.
We enter the world alone, and we leave the world alone.
These are some kind of 'shields' from everyday shit.
It's easy to give advices like 'be positive' and etc, my advice is... None, because everyone must find the answers for themselves, cause life is a battle inside and outside. And of course never give up. :P

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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby theundead » Wed Aug 13, 2014 5:47 am

prasun77 wrote:well hey then! i am 21 and dealing with the same thing you guys are talking about...up and down cycles....how did you manage?

I am 20 and face the same thing.
But I managed it at times by learning new stuff. I started graphic designing for my university student's journalism society. I started some photography as well and i must say that photography really cheers me up. you start thinking in terms of pictures you want to take and the manual setting required. And when you get the shot you want, it is very very motivational.

So find a couple of new hobbies that take you a little out of your comfort zone. Also talk to your parents or siblings as much as you can. It will really help.
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Re: General Chat Thread

Postby prasun77 » Wed Aug 13, 2014 8:49 am

thanks guys!
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